Is It Normal to Lose Motivation During Weight Loss? Here’s How to Get Through It

Dr Nick Fuller
Leading Obesity Expert at the University of Sydney and founder of Interval Weight Loss.

Losing motivation during weight loss is incredibly common and completely normal. In fact, research shows that motivation tends to decline significantly within the first few months of a weight loss attempt, especially when expectations are high and progress slows down.

But it’s not just about mindset. Your biology plays a role, too. As you lose weight, your body adapts by increasing hunger hormones and decreasing energy expenditure, making it harder to keep going, even when you’re doing everything right.

The question isn’t whether motivation will dip, but when, why, and what you do next. Because while those initial bursts of energy are exciting, sustainable change isn’t built on motivation alone.

Signs You Are Losing Motivation During Weight Loss

It doesn’t always happen overnight. Sometimes, the loss of motivation creeps in quietly, masked as ‘just a busy week’ or ‘needing a break.’ But over time, these moments can add up and derail your progress. 

Here are some of the most common signs that motivation is slipping:

Skipping workouts

You might start missing a session here and there, telling yourself you’ll make up for it later. But when missed workouts become the norm, it could be more than a scheduling issue. Research shows that a drop in physical activity is one of the first behavioural signs of weight loss disengagement.

Going back to old habits

Habits are deeply wired, and when motivation fades, your brain tends to revert to familiar behaviours, especially those linked to reward. One study found that the risk of returning to ingrained habits is significantly higher in stressful contexts: people are more likely to fall back on ingrained routines, even unhelpful ones, when their motivation dwindles and stress rises .

This means that your previous patterns, especially those connected with reward or comfort, can reassert themselves when you're feeling pressured, tired, or overwhelmed. It's not just about lacking willpower; it's about your brain defaulting to what's familiar.

Feeling tired or unmotivated to plan meals

Meal planning and food choices rely on executive function, the mental energy involved in decision-making. When that energy is depleted, people are more likely to opt for convenience over intention, especially in calorie-restricted or high-stress conditions.

Negative self-talk or comparing yourself with others

Negative self-talk and social comparison are strongly linked to lower body satisfaction and reduced motivation to continue weight-related behaviour changes. A study found that internalised weight stigma and appearance-based comparisons predicted poorer adherence to health goals.

Why You Lose Motivation During Weight Loss

Motivation doesn’t disappear overnight. It fades slowly, shaped by a mix of physical, emotional and psychological factors. Below are examples of what often causes that slump:

Progress feels slow

The scale isn’t moving, your clothes fit the same, and it feels like all your effort isn’t paying off. Research shows that when progress feels stalled, people are more likely to disengage, even if they’re still improving.

Unrealistic expectations

Thanks to diet culture and fast-transformation stories, many expect quick, dramatic results. But when sustainable change takes longer (as it often does), disappointment can set in. According to research, disappointment, especially when things don’t turn out as expected, can strongly influence future decisions. People often adjust their behaviour to avoid that negative feeling, even if it means abandoning a goal or making impulsive choices 

In other words, when weight loss results don’t meet early expectations, motivation can take a hit, not just emotionally, but neurologically.

Boredom with routine

Doing the same workouts or eating similar meals daily can start to feel dull and repetitive. Your brain is wired to crave novelty. When things get too predictable, dopamine levels drop, taking motivation down with it.

Everyday life stress

Work deadlines, family responsibilities, disrupted routines. Real life doesn’t pause just because you’re trying to lose weight. A study indicates that even small stressors can derail healthy habits by draining mental energy.

Bottom line? Losing motivation doesn’t mean you’re weak or lazy. It means you’re human. And knowing what’s behind it is the first step to getting back on track.

7 Powerful Ways to Stay Motivated During Weight Loss

While staying motivated isn’t always easy, especially when progress feels slow, the right strategies can make it easier to keep going. Here are seven simple ways to stay focused and build momentum on your weight loss journey.

Set small, achievable goals and track progress

Breaking your weight loss journey into smaller goals makes progress more measurable and psychologically rewarding. Research suggests that setting achievable goals improves adherence and boosts self-efficacy or your belief that you can succeed. Tracking those goals, whether through weight, photos, or habit logs, provides tangible evidence of change even when the scale stalls.

Reconnect with your personal why

Reminding yourself why you started can help reorient your motivation. Writing down your goals and values and revisiting them regularly has been shown to strengthen commitment and improve follow-through on health behaviours. When things get hard, returning to your personal ‘why’ helps maintain direction and purpose.

Plan meals and prepare in advance

Planning meals ahead of time can reduce decision fatigue and increase the likelihood of sticking to healthy eating patterns. Studies show that meal planning is associated with better diet quality and lower obesity risk. Having a plan in place gives you structure and makes healthy choices more automatic.

Add variety to your routine

Doing the same workout or eating the same meals day after day can lead to boredom and eventually, burnout. Introducing new challenges or switching up routines boosts engagement and long-term adherence. One review found that variety in exercise improves both enjoyment and sustained participation over time.

Focus on non-scale victories

Fixating solely on weight can be discouraging, especially when it fluctuates or stalls. Instead, notice improvements in mood, energy, sleep, and strength. Research shows that non-scale outcomes like fitness, wellbeing, and daily functioning are better predictors of long-term health than weight alone. Over-focusing on weight can negatively impact body image and mental health. Studies show that idealised images on social media and societal weight standards are linked to low self-esteem, depression, and disordered eating.

Surround yourself with supportive people

Social support consistently ranks as one of the strongest predictors of sustained weight loss motivation. Being part of a group or having an accountability partner increases persistence, provides encouragement, and reduces the impact of setbacks. Even virtual communities can make a difference.

Watch your self-talk

Negative self-talk and comparison can quietly erode motivation. In contrast, positive reinforcement, even in the form of self-directed encouragement, has been shown to improve health behaviours. Catching unhelpful thoughts and replacing them with more supportive internal dialogue fosters resilience and consistency.

Key Takeaways

Losing motivation during weight loss is part of the process. Your biology shifts. Life gets complicated. Progress slows. And sometimes, the things that once felt exciting start to feel routine. That doesn’t mean you’ve lost your way. It means it’s time to recalibrate.

Recognising the early signs of fading motivation can help you intervene before it spirals. And when it does, you now have tools grounded in evidence, not just willpower, to help you reset.

Small, sustainable shifts matter more than constant momentum. Goals may evolve. Habits may need adjusting. But your ability to keep showing up, even imperfectly, is the real measure of success.

So if your motivation has dipped, take a breath. You’re not behind. You’re right on track—just navigating a very normal, very human part of change. Let that be your next step. Not perfection. Just persistence.

Struggling to stay motivated because your weight’s stalled? Read our article, Weight Loss Plateau Solutions That Work—Really, to learn why plateaus happen, how to reignite your progress, and ways to stay mentally and physically on track.

About Dr Nick Fuller

Dr Nick Fuller is the founder of Interval Weight Loss and is a leading obesity expert at the University of Sydney with a Ph.D. in Obesity Treatment. Dr Fuller is also the author of three best-selling books and his work been published in top ranked journals in the medical field, including JAMA, Lancet and American Journal of Clinical Nutrition.